It can be very easy to see when other people go wrong, or where they went wrong. However it can be an awful lot harder to see where we ourselves are going wrong or even went wrong. It’s easy to blame others, those around us or even vague entities such as the System, the Man for our mistakes, problems and issues. We live in a blame culture. But sometimes we have to man up and face the fact that we screwed up, that we have at least some responsibility in the mistakes, errors and mess ups of our lives. Sometimes even when it seems like the problem or responsibility may lie with someone else, we have to make amends and bridge the gap, righting the wrong. As my Dad always said, it takes two to tango. Work with the people, especially the family, in your lives. Be grown up enough to make things right yourself. Be prepared to see where you yourself have gone wrong.
